bresslawcom.gif (1009 bytes)

 

WAS IT A GIFT OR A LOAN?

Click here to save article in WinZip.exe format to your PC 

Frequently parents will make gifts to their children for a variety of reasons.  In one case parents gave $150,000 to a son who was about to get married.  The son and his future wife intended to use the moneys toward the purchase of new home.  Additional monies were borrowed from a bank to effect the purchase and to pay for certain renovations and the parents were asked to sign a statement saying that the monies were a gift.  After signing the gift statement, the parents’ lawyer suggested that a note and mortgage deed also be signed by the son and friend which was signed by them.  Sometime later, and before the marriage occurred the couple split up and never lived in the house.  As a condition of getting a bank loan, the parents signed a statement that the $150,000 was a gift.  Well, were the funds given as a gift or as a loan? 

After the breakup, the parents wanted to make sure that they got the money back and sued both the son and his now estranged friend.  The parents argued that the monies were really a loan.  But the parents had the problem of the statement they signed saying that the monies were a gift.   I will not tell you how the case came out.  If you would like to know, telephone me.

Note that here the parents were arguing for a loan.  But say the same facts except that the parents needed nursing home care.  To argue that it is a loan could produce the worst result because Medicaid could request an assignment of the loan as a condition of the receipt of Medicaid.  In almost all cases it is better to treat the matter as a gift.  But what is your proof of a gift?  The best proof is a Gift Statement together with the filing of a gift tax return which is the parents’ legal obligation in any respect.  We are now insisting that some document be executed to reflect past and present gifts as well as gifts in the future.

to top of page